The world is going for a change from guys-should-pay-everything to girls-shouldn’t-be-materialistic. Well, sure if you want a good guy that will take good care of your family while you take care of your children, he should have enough decency to treat you a couple of dinners. On the other hand, it is completely fine, and even respectful, for girls to treat guys once in a while.
No one is going to hate you for it and it should not be emb-arra-ssing the guy in any way. You treat your friends on your birthday, why would it be a problem to treat your guy on a date?
But this old-fashioned girl we have right here is about to shock you. Not only did she invite the guy for a dinner, she thinks a gentleman should be paying for her dinner. Well, okay, to impress your partner, you sometimes have to do more to gain that.
But this guy refused to and posted his screenshots under Reddit user u/CuteBananaMuffin. Girl rejected guy’s second date offer to make up for it and you will definitely agree with the guy not trying to appease her for that.
“The date was fun at first until she started talking about another guy and how much he liked him, but I thought ‘let’s eat, talk and leave’ since she’s into another guy, and it all crumbled when it came to the bill,” he said.
“She was shocked that I let her pay. She didn’t say anything at the time, but from her facial expression I realized she was furious.”
“I usually pay for both sides when it comes to the bill, but I’m a student and I work 60 hours a week to pay for food, books etc. so I obviously couldn’t afford to pay 110 euros for her food. I asked her out again to apologize pretty much for the previous time, hoping we can go to a cheaper place so I could make up for it, but as you can see, the result was really bad…
David Henriksen – My first date she asked me out before I could ask her. She picked me up and took me to dinner, her treat. It was an unusual situation for me being dropped off after sitting in the passenger side of her car. I’ll never forget that night. It’s probably why we’re still together after 8 years.
Stefani Qureshi – What a princess. Seriously. Does not matter who asked whom out. When I go out on a 1st date, I fully expect to pay for my meal. If I do not have the means to do it, I simply do not accept the invite. We are not living in a Jane Austen novel here. And if Principessa knew she had to pay for herself, I bet the lobster would have remained in the tank with his other buddies!
Stacey Dorfman – I’m trying to figure out why he asked her out again? It couldnt have been that great of a first date if she was talking about another guy the whole time.
Sounds like he was looking for a free meal! And I am old fashioned and think a guy should pay for dates, I know that’s not popular in this day and age, but I still think that is appropriate for a gentlemen to do, even if she asked him. If he couldnt pay for it, he should have told her they would seprate the tab. I think she was a major jerk with how she charged him. She should have just nicely declined the second date. But I do feel like he was just looking for s-x since he said she spent the whole first date talking about another guy. Why did he even ask for a second date?
Elizabeth A Dellinger – I always pay for my own until we are in a relationship, then we take turns. I make my own money and I’m going out to get to know you, not get a free meal.