Falling In Love the 1st Time: The Love that Looks Right
It is no secret that a person falls in love only with three people in his or her entire life. This is so because he or she needs each of them for a specific reason. Mostly the first love happens at an early age may be in high school or around that age. This love is real and seems to be ideal just like those grandma stories about fairies which we use to listen as children. This first love seems to be the most perfect in every manner. Be it in terms of what the society demand’s from an individual or satisfying the requirements of a family. No matter how difficult is it to sustain in this love age we try to give our 100 percent to make it work. This is because we believe in this type of love by default.
This happens as in first type of love, it is more important what others think about it and not just our personal feelings regarding love.
Falling In Love the 2nd Time: The Hard Love
“Hard Love” is the term given to the second love of our life because this is the love which educates us about ourselves as to who we actually are as a person and in what way we wish to be loved. This love will eventually bring hurt and pain in our life either due to manipulation or lies it unfolds with time. We are made to believe that we are on the right path by making right decisions this time but the truth is that we yet to learn a few more lessons – irrespectively, we hold to it.
This second love can become a loop in our life as we keep thinking that it will be something different each time. The real truth is that it ends mostly adversely than the previous one.
Falling In Love the 3rd Time: The Love that Lasts
The final and the third love is like an acci-dent which we did not anticipate. This love often makes us feel wrong in many ways. For example, it shatters the very idea of love we use to have in our mind. This love seems impossible at first due to its ease. It will not be wrong if we term it as ‘Unplanned Love’. In short, coming together with a person and feeling right about it is what this love is all about.