9 Signs Your Man Is Giving Up On Your Relationship

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You never want to be blindsided by a separation in your relationship. If your man is slowly giving up on you, you always want to be sure that you are aware of it. If you are staying on top of things, then you have a chance to make things right in your relationship. Or at the very least, you are able to brace yourself for the emotional impact of an impending separation.

1. He becomes emotionally unavailable to you


He doesn’t make you feel safe to express yourself to him anymore. In the past, he always used to be a receptacle for your feelings and emotions – whether positive or negative. He always allowed you to open up to him in whatever way you wanted. But nowadays, he is emotionally unavailable to you. He no longer makes you feel like he’s invested in your feelings and so you feel unsafe to talk to him about them. You get the sense that he is no longer a willing listener.

2. He stops putting in the effort to try to make you happy


He’s no longer invested in making an effort for your relationship. You both know that it takes a great deal of effort, dedication, and commitment to make your relationship work. But lately, he’s been very uninterested. He has seemed cold and distant. It’s as if he doesn’t really have a stake in this relationship anymore. He might still be physically present; but emotionally, he has already checked out and you’re carrying this relationship on your own.

3. He criticizes you just to hurt your feelings


There should always be room for proper reproval in a relationship. Couples should always feel free to be honest with one another so as long as it comes from a place of love and care.

But you get the sense that there is no love and care in his reproval for you. It’s all about him just stab your feelings and making you feel like less of a person than you actually are. He’s doing it to br-eak your heart and turn you off to the idea of liking him.

4. He stops telling you that he loves you


You definitely know that something is wrong if your man has stopped telling you that he loves you. When two people are in love, they should never run out of ways to express their love and affection for one another. But the very fact that he isn’t invested in letting his feelings be known to you at this point may be proof that he no longer has those feelings.

5. He spends less and less time with you


You should probably know by now that time is only ever really spent on he people and things that are important to us. We never want to be wasting our time on the people and things that don’t matter much. And that’s why you should take a hint: if he’s spending less time with you, it’s because he doesn’t value as much now as he used to back then. You are slowly becoming less and less of a priority. And it’s all because he’s not interested in being with you anymore.

6. He no longer opens up to you about his life


He doesn’t seem interested in opening up to you anymore. He doesn’t want to be making it seem like he wants to be revealing close aspects of his life to you. It can range from trivial things like what he does during the day or to more serious stuff like what he feels about you and the relationship.

You want him to open up to you; but you just can’t seem to be getting anything out of him.

7. He does things that he knows upsets you


It’s as if he’s trying to get you to hate him. It’s almost like he’s really working hard to get you to be miffed at him. He wants you to resent him. He is always trying to make you upset. Why? Because maybe, it’s how he feels about you. He’s trying to get you to hate him so that it’s a softer blow for when he actually does br-eak up with you. He is no longer interested in impressing you; in fact, he’s more interested in the opposite.

8. He asks for so much space and privacy


It’s always okay to ask for occasional space and privacy in a relationship.

Even couples who have very strong, happy, and healthy relationships will require some space and boundaries. That’s very normal. You both still have to be able to maintain a sense of individuality and independence even if you’re in a relationship. But if he’s asking for space and privacy to the point that he’s really shutting you out of his life, then you know that something’s wrong.

9. They just don’t respect you.

No matter who you are, you deserve to be with someone who thinks the very best of you and who treats you as such. According to Psychology Today, respect may be even more crucial in relationships than love.

This means that your partner doesn’t have to necessarily be in love with you at the moment, but they should at least, have respect for you. If they make you feel taken for granted, belittle you, or question your work ethic, that’s disrespectful and that’s not who you want to spend your time with. In the end, if they’re not into you enough to give you the decency of respect, they shouldn’t occupy your time.

Comments:

Sam Smith – Sometimes we see the signs, but we still hold on hoping for your partner to change, and also but you really love that person

Nicole – These days people don’t understand what “love “ is . That’s why we’d rather walk away than talk about what’s wrong.

Julia Brien – Yesterday my husband and I both said that we don’t love each other anymore. The signs mentioned in this video are true. 22 years together … 4 children. We said that we ‘care’ about one another and that we are both sad by this. We have hugged and we have cried, but we don’t make each other happy anymore

Helen Henry – Number 1 is what I have been into until he said it out I never knew I could have the strength to separate but I thank God for his Grace I have overcome it

Wilfredo Ramos – 25 years with the woman I loved very much . all the signs where there I feel such a fool thinking I knew her . the signs started 4 years ago . the distance . the excuses not to be close. the phone never out of her hand Spending more time with her friend’s. ? One morning she told me I love you but not in love with you . found out a couple of days after that . she was seen with her 1st boyfriend arm in arm when she was meant to be out with the girls ?. also found out she was with a co worker she worked with who I thought was my friend . still never admitted it and she’s still sneaking around . and the lie continues . to her family I can’t get over the devastation.

Source: todayreport24.com